Getting into a relationship is one of the most amazing things that can happen to you as a woman, however, the bliss that comes with this is highly dependent on your choice of partner. A responsible man would make you fall head over heels for him when he’s doing the right things, but sis, so would a f**kboy.
Right now, you must be asking yourself, “How can I detect a f**kboy before committing too much to him and breaking my beautiful heart?” Well, we’ve got you sis.
In this article, you’ll discover important signs to watch out for in order to spot men that fit into the description of what the society popularly refers to as a f**kboy.
Who exactly is a F**kboy?
A “fuckboy” is a slang term used to describe a man who is deemed to have questionable or sleazy behavior towards women. This can include things such as being disrespectful, manipulative, or not following through on promises. The term is generally used as a negative label.
How to spot a f**kboy
Sometimes, you can love a man so much that a lot of things he does tend to look normal to you even when they’re abnormal. Therefore, In other to spot a f**kboy, you need to be smart, intentional and look out for some key signs.
Here are some common behaviors and traits that people associate with a “fuckboy”;
1) Lack of commitment
Men that belong in this category normally avoid talking about the future or being in a committed relationship. This can manifest in various ways, such as not being fully committed to spending time together, not making future plans as a couple, or not being willing to make sacrifices for the relationship.
When your partner lacks commitment, it can lead to a lack of trust and stability in the relationship and can eventually lead to its end.
It’s important for partners to have open and honest communication about their feelings and commitment levels to ensure the health and longevity of the relationship, but if this is not happening in your relationship then oops! You might be dating a f**kboy.
2) Poor communication
If that guy doesn’t communicate effectively with you or frequently avoids telling you things about him, then you need to be worried because communication is a key component of a healthy relationship.
Good communication can help to build trust, resolve conflicts, and deepen the connection between partners, but f**kboys are vague and always avoid communication altogether.
3) They are players
My sister, do you need anyone to remind you of running when you see a player? Players have a reputation for dating multiple people at once or leading people on, hence, it’s no surprise that they’re also popularly regarded as f**kboys.
So if that guy is giving you signs that there could be another woman around the corner, you already have your answer.
4) Insincere compliments
Insincere compliments can have negative effects on relationships, so watch out sis, because f**kboys tend to do this a lot. Oftentimes, this is intentional, and it can lead to distrust, undermine your self-esteem, and reduce the authenticity of the relationship.
If you’ve been receiving a lot of dishonest compliments from your partner lately, or you feel some sense of manipulative intent, then it could be time to have those difficult conversations in order to find out their real intent with you before you decide to call it quits or not.
5) Self-centeredness
The right guy would never make you feel unvalued. Rather, he’ll try as much as possible to put your needs and desires at the forefront of his thoughts. F**kboys on the other hand do not care, they prioritize their own needs and desires over others.
A partner that is not empathetic right now, may actually never be. If your partner only cares about themself, that’s a bad sign, and you need to be worried.
6) Emotional unavailability
Having a partner that is never available emotionally is a big red flag, and unfortunately for f**kboys, they top the chart when it comes to emotional unavailability.
Take note of the following signs below, because if your partner constantly displays these behaviors, it could spell trouble;
- They tend to avoid intimacy
- Difficulty expressing feelings
- Difficulty with commitment
- Fear of vulnerability
- Blame-shifting
- They avoid conflicts
- They have a past history of failed relationship
7) Disrespectful behavior
Finally sis, only men that do not value women will disrespect them. If a man disrespects you, he’s definitely not worth your time and energy, and is most definitely a f**kboy. So, for your own good, it’s better to leave.
In the event that you’re married to such a person, let your partner know that you feel hurt by their behavior and disrespect. Understand the reason behind their behavior and work with them. If they are ready to rectify their mistakes, it is fine. If both of you have issues coming to a common ground, then consult a marriage counselor
Conclusion
F**kboys should be avoided at all costs, because they not only make the wrong choice for a partner in a relationship, but they end up wasting your time and could leave your mental health in bad shape.
It’s important to be cautious of the signs listed above, but also to remember that not all men who display these behaviors are “fuckboys”. Therefore, it’s crucial to be respectful and avoid making blanket judgments or assumptions about individuals based on stereotypes.
